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11/8/2008 Winter comes with the defoliation in SoochowThe "Beginning of Winter" has came according to the 12 solar terms in Chinese calendar, and it seems as if a year's time has nearly passed away from the no longer growing up hands.
People often say that one year and half year or so, I have been in Suzhou almost one year and half, while apart from some of the daily office affairs, there seems just little progress. After work, it was found that I am becoming lazy, and there are less and less new fresh ideas, even the passion of Obama is far away off ... For the lyrics, recommend the song by Jay, that is "Daoxiang" which can enjoy when free. In Suzhou, winter has arrived quietly with the defoliation. Winter comes once again, and I do not know it will like last storm season or not, when a person faced to. 十二节气已经到了“立冬”，仿佛一年的光阴已经要在那双不再长大的手中流逝殆尽。 人家常说一年半载，我在苏州也已经快一年半了，可是除了一些日常的办公室事务，似乎没有什么长进。 工作之后，发现人是慢慢变懒了，想法也越来越少了，奥巴马的激情应该是很遥远的事情了... 因为歌词的缘故，推荐Jay的《稻香》，大家有空可以听听。 在苏州，见到落叶的时候，冬天的脚步已然悄然而至。 又是一个寒冬的来临，不知道还像不像去年的暴风雪季节，一个人在闘鬥鬭 :)
4/10/2008 TO Be with
Things have been packaged, but the mood is still Surroundings has been changed, while the feeling is as usual AS the NUMB has said, who cares other's steps The person to be with whome or who to be with There is no suspense even emotional surging
（圖片轉載它處） The grey future and dead passion like the stop clock in a korean drama Never knows when will continue the time which is far away although close by 8/3/2007 无题
Many times, image is one thing but real is another. When we were young, i wanted to grow up for the free style life, though we grown, i still stay in the space where surrounds with more rule and blue. I am not sure, but I agree that most time, the life is not a happy thing. Day by day, the routine kills my time and life, while I am not sure which is the better way after the cross. Nine a.m-five p.m, as the clock showing, the path just has two points, with the narrow eyeshot. Maybe it is the calm down time for re-build myself for the next life, I think.
最近读圆觉经, 有句话想记录下来. 知幻即离，不作方便，离幻即觉，亦无渐次.
7/24/2007 Besieged city
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6/5/2007 喜欢，爱
爱一个人，特别坦然 喜欢一个人，有时候盼和他在一起 爱一个人，有时候怕和他在一起 喜欢就好
爱， 太辛苦了 5/21/2007 Travel Diary 007 The end for last travel一个人的旅行 三个多礼拜 5000多公里 已经告一段落了 (圖片轉載它處) 呵呵...海边的一段日子 让我黑了很多 当然
还有与妈妈一块过的母亲节 印象深刻
...... 最近有些人做的事情
还是让我感觉到
朋友还是要坦诚 PS：明天出差 三天后回来
4/19/2007 前 行
明 天 仿 佛 是 一 个 时 代 的 结 束
也 应 该 是 另 外 一 页 的 开 始 吧
跟之前的记录一样
路是 一 步 一 步 走出来的
不再去想 下一个转角
会怎么样？
让时间 承载过去的回忆
也只有时间 见证我们的明天
4/18/2007 ☜...☞ IntersectionUsually, we meet a friend with the beginning of same topic or even same idea. While, sometimes we will find it is something difficult to discuss with somebody or to continue the talk... Honestly speaking, it is the nature way.
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You want to share something what the person you face. Unfortunately, where is the start point? Intersection... Maybe need the time, maybe not... 4/14/2007 上海滩
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3/29/2007 MiscellaneousThere are something special good what I have found these recent days, and I want to paste here for share.
The song from Tamas Wells, lackadaisical and quite, but something like whispering...perfect！
Valder Fields
I was found on the ground by the fountain about a fields of a summer stride
lying in the sun after i had tried lying in the sun by the side we all agreed that the council would end up three hours over time shoe laces were tied at the traffic lights i was running late, could apply for anther one i guess
after parking stores are best they said that there would be delays on the temporary pay for another one i guessed after parking stores at best they said that there would be delays on the temporary pay She was found on the ground in a gown in a fountain filled by the summer These days, I can feel the sentiment stirring within me for someone faraway from me, or even not in my life circle at present, while years before maybe.
I though I should try my best and chating would be a nice way of sharing and let the bule go, and I did as well. But still now, I am not sure what's the nice guy thinking about it now, or even never.
Exactly speaking, each person has their own way of life and they can deal with the things by their own idea and choice, even go through them themselves painfully, it would be a process which others could not cover for.
Another thing what I met this afternoon, I felt something unaccustomed. Is the saying that "the tea should cool after the person has gone", maybe say the one would not be as popular as the time when he/she is on the position.
As C. Morley said "There is only one success --- to be able to spend your life in your own way. "
Quote someone's saying (original from Chun) for encouraging, which has been sent to the guy for the same purpose.
Michael Jordan:
Success isn’t something you chase. Its something you have put forth the effort for constantly. Then, maybe it’ll come when you least expect it. 成功不是你所能強求的。它是一種常常向前努力的態度。然後在你不是那麼強求的時候，它可能就會在你手中。
Life is like a taxi. The meter just keeps ticking whether you are getting somewhere or just standing still! So… remember to do something useful and beneficial everyday! 生活就像坐計程車。不管你要去哪裡或只是停著不動，跳表還是會繼續跳! 所以…記得要做有意義的事情並好好生活喔! 3/25/2007 Student's lifeNowadays, yungkers need to take seveal years been in campus. Maybe, kids want to be adult as fast as possible, while enjoy the time would be the best choice.
Been in Xi'an for about 7 years, from bachelor to master. It is not a short time and it was the golden time in one's life.
Honestly speaking, been as a student, there are plenty of leisure time, although some time you need to prepare for the tests or other activities. It is very lucky that one person has his/her own time, and can do his/her loving things. Maybe reading, drawing, playing games, or even drinking, could sleep at mid-night and get up at about mid-noon......
Baalism or we say idolatry is one common phenomena, watching baal drama from Korean, Japan, Taiwan, or even Singapore. Sing songs which is on the line, do sports doesn't matter the time, ect.
enthusiastic on some special things which likes to been in, passion for the young life.........................
These years, meet with persons and some become my friends. I think I am lucky enough to have friends who considering about and sharing the life.
Student's life, become to missing it while it has not gone.
Student's life, young life....
11/22/2006 11-22Today is as ususal but a little special...
Y kun wrote a mail to me, and it is exactly moved me, a special friend although far away...if dinner together, which should be a nice imaging!!
I were drowned in the project stilly, and were hit again last night, I am not sure when I will get out of the mess which never met and the terrible relationship without any care and team spirite.
Where is the confidence, I am not sure who broken it or I lost it where. I do not what I am insisting for?
Maybe someone will say do not touch and let it be, I think it will be trouble again and again for the things going, as some suggest, evael is the direct way to break out...
When will it finish, I am look forware to...but not sure wating useful or not, but no choice.
When will friends come...it is only the happy thing I am waiting for...
10/21/2006 夜宴后刚刚睡了一觉，休息之后的大脑有了冷静思考的平台。
仿佛回到中学、甚至小学......朦胧之中，回想到每逢周末、期末，有些乡下的同学骑车回家，虽然感觉是一个比较辛苦的行程，估计要2、3个小时在冷风中的急行，但是他们都很高兴，是的，很高兴......因为，不管怎么说，是要回家了。可是，我没有那经历，现在才体会到。
又是一个十一，你回家了吗？
我还在学校......
一直以来都觉得媒体炒做五一、十一，所谓的黄金周，是别有用心。搞的人流紧张，旅游地过饱和......
但是现在感觉，不管外界如何变化，你可以活在时代的边缘，或者也可以说是个人的中心。
放假了三天，看了一些电影、电视剧，没有少折腾。
夜宴，看完了。一部冷艳的片子，冯导的作业还不错。
片子里面讨论的欲望，看起来似乎是遥远的字眼了；对我来说，原本也就比较遥远，因为，相对来说这是贬义的。
可是，Desiger似乎是比较中性的吧。那么，用这个词汇来描述我的状态又是怎样的呢？
似乎还是遥远......
那么，我在做什么？
我要做什么？
大学四年、研究生三年......
我什么都不做，就是打工也有7年了。
可是，我这7年呢？
以后呢......
刚刚在床上的时候，听到999朵玫瑰、红楼梦的插曲......
是经典啊!
也表示我已经听了好多年了。
似乎，
我开始逃避年龄......
逃避有什么用呢？？
记于 10 月3 日
8/24/2006 大学男生给大学男生的27句忠告 (转载) 1 不要觉得大学还是象牙塔，可以逍遥自在，花前月下。可以玩转电子游戏，你未必可以玩转你的大学，玩转这个社会。 2 不管现在你对未来多困惑，多迷茫，都不要忘了树立一个目标。一个人过去或现在的情 况并不重要，将来想要获得什么成就才最重要。除非你对未来有理想，否则做不出什么大事来 。 3 当你被同学吹捧为情场高手，不要因此而洋洋得意，更不能伺机卖弄。因为聪慧的女孩 子对你的下三滥的套数已经了如指掌。你是不会真正赢得她们的的好感的，最后你只能输了自己 4 不要把女人视作你随意的一件衣服，穿旧了可以换新的。世界上没有绝对新的衣服，何况真正适合的衣服穿起来才最舒适。 5 不要轻易对一个你稍有好感的女生说：我爱你，这三个字的重量可不轻，它是一种沉甸 甸的责任。同样也不要对你的女朋友三天两头的说：我爱你，因为真正对她有吸引力的东西不是那些她想得到就得到的东西。 6 如果你自认为自己很帅，就再虚心提升一下自己内在的涵养。满口粗话脏话的男生，绝对不是一种新潮。良好的内在涵养对女人是最有征服力的武器。 7 不要在女孩子面前就慷慨解囊，俨然一个款哥，即便你的确很有钱。要知道，看中你现有金钱的女人，终究有一天会因为金钱背叛你。 8 不要觉得只有会吸烟，能喝酒才是成熟的男人。没有多少女生会喜欢你满身的烟味和酒气接近她。适当的博览群书，听一些古典音乐，说不定可以成为真正的资本。 9 不要整天埋怨什么某大无美女，恐龙咋就这么多。实话告诉你：中国现在还是阳多阴少，只要能有一个跟你就不错了。何况恐龙时代的到来，对社会未必不是一种进步。 10 和女朋友闹别扭时，要多一些宽容和忍耐。适时地向她认错，哄她开心是必需的。此时的绅士风度恐怕是最具有实际价值的。要知道，女孩子大都需要你能像大哥哥一样的呵护她，谦让她，即便大多的时候是她的错。 11 一定要做个胸怀宽大的男生。当你的女朋友和她的异性朋友交往时，别表现得过于敏感。没有哪个女生愿意只有你和她的世界，除了爱情，她也需要异性友情。即便她再爱你。 12 和女生约会时，一定要提前几分钟去等她。不要觉得准时她就会满意，往往她都希望是你早一点去等，而不是一分不差的准时出现在她面前。当然更不能迟到。 13 周末了，不要以玩游戏或和哥们打球为由，让女朋友一个人过。有些时候，她要的只是喜欢和你一起在大街上走的感觉。逛街的时候她不一定非要买些什么，或是让你掏腰包。 14 不要相信一见钟情，电影、电视剧、爱情小说里的故事都是编者拿出来骗人的。如果你和现在的女朋友就属于一见钟情型，而且现在处的还很好，我只能告诉你：哥们，你是抽中了某一期电脑彩票的特等奖500万！ 15 如果你曾经背着女朋友和另外一个女生在一起，即便是办一些正事，也不要对她实话实说。有的时候，美丽的谎言是必须的。女生的心思更多的时候我们男生摸不透。 16 如果你有些玩世不恭，或是自负手段高明，可以同时玩转n个女生（n1）,那么我想告诉你：最后你一定是自己把自己玩转。 17 如果你是一个不善言辞的男生，没有关系，相信自己一定有很多方面吸引着一些女孩子。不自信的男生，即便你再优秀，女生也会敬而远之。何况，也有人说：越是有深度的人，越会沉默。 18 不要觉得颓废是一种美，没有人会可怜一个堕落、不知上进的人。没有事业心和进取意识的男人，只能是虚度一生。 19 特殊的节日，不要忘记只给自己的女朋友送上一份礼物，一个祝福，而忽略了身边曾对你关心照顾的兄弟姐妹。 20 上楼时，走在女生后面；上下车主动打开车门；落座前，帮她拉开座椅；进电梯时，在女士之前进入电梯,出电梯时,后于女士出电梯,同时按着开门键…这些微不足道的细节都会给女生留下很深刻的印象，不要觉得只有甜言蜜语才是最让她们动心的。 21 要注意个人的形象和卫生习惯。没有哪个女生愿意看你脸颊参差不齐的胡茬，和满是头皮屑的凌乱的长发。还有床下堆了半个月的臭袜子和破球鞋。 22 当你和朋友为某件小事“斗嘴”或面对别人对你的缺点批评和指责时，一定要学会克制自己的情绪。要知道，愤怒是无知的表现，不能轻易发脾气。 23 自然的本色才是最美的，不要觉得变了色的头发，奇特的造型才叫帅。只有天真幼稚的女生才可能被这些表面现象所迷惑。因为你永远都跟不上潮流。 24切忌对什么都漠不关心，什么都无所谓。漠视生活的人，也会被生活漠视。注意培养以下自己某些方面的兴趣和爱好是不容忽视的。 25 珍惜时间，不要觉得反正我年轻，光阴可以肆意挥霍。凡在学习和事业上有所成就的人，都有一个成大事者的诀窍：变“闲暇”为“不闲”，也就是不偷清闲，不贪逸趣。 26 切忌重色轻友，落得个不仁不义的“罪名”。当然真正的友谊绝不仅仅是哥们义气，酒肉朋友是不值得珍惜的。 27 孝敬父母，尊重老师。对于 如果你的母亲和你的妻子（女朋友）掉进水里，你先就谁的无聊问题，我想是不需要加以争论和研究的。如果你的女朋友会因你救了你的母亲而嫉恨你，我想她也不值得你去救了 8/2/2006 Murphy's Lawquote:
墨菲定律：
1.工作比想象的更复杂； 2.花费的时间比预计的更长； 3.所需的费用比设想的更多； 4.毛病能出到什么程度，就一定会出到那个程度。 Orginal: 1949年，一位名叫墨菲的空军上尉工程师，认为他的某位同事是个倒霉蛋，不经意间开了句玩笑：‘如果一件事情有可能被弄糟，让他去做就一定会弄糟。’ 这句话迅速流传，并扩散到世界各地。在流传扩散的过程中，这句笑话逐渐失去它原有的局限性，演变成各种各样的形式，其中一个最通行的形式是：‘如果坏事情有可能发生，不管这种可能性多么小，它总会发生，并引起最大可能的损失。’这就是著名的‘墨菲定律’。
下面是墨菲定律的一些变种或推论。
人生： 1、别试图教猫唱歌，这样不但不会有结果，还会惹猫不高兴。 2、别跟傻瓜吵架，不然旁人会搞不清楚，到底谁是傻瓜？ 3、不要以为自己很重要，因为没有你，太阳明天还是一样从东方升上来。 4、笑一笑，明天未必比今天好。 5、好的开始，未必就有好结果；坏的开始，结果往往会更糟。
处世 6、你若帮助了一个急需用钱的朋友，他一定会记得你──在他下次急需用钱的时候。 7、有能力的，让他做；没能力的，教他做；做不来的，管理他。 8、你早到了，会议却取消；你准时到，却还要等；迟到，就是迟了。 9、你携伴出游，越不想让人看见，越会遇见熟人。
爱情 10、你爱上的人，总以为你爱上他是因为：他使你想起你的老情人。 11、你最后硬着头皮寄出情书，寄达对方的时间有多长，你反悔的时间就有多长。
常识 12、东西越好，越不中用。 13、一种产品保证60天不会出故障，等于保证第61天一定就会坏掉。 14、东西久久都派不上用场，就可以丢掉；东西一丢掉，往往就必须要用它。 15、你丢掉了东西时，最先去找的地方，往往也是可能找到的最后一个地方。 16、你往往会找到不是你正想找的东西。 17、你出去买爆米花的时候，银幕上偏偏就出现了精采镜头。 18、排队时，另一排总是动得比较快；你换到另一排，你原来站的那一排，就开始动得比较快了；你站得越久，越有可能是站错了排。 19、一分钟有多长？这要看你是蹲在厕所里面，还是等在厕所外面。 这要看你是蹲在厕所里面，还是等在厕所外面。 7/30/2006 流言蜚语Something I thought will happen, but I feel not so good when it comes, together with so many misunderstading and scandal.
In China, the most important culture is how you deal with the relationship but not the work, includes the university and the scholars!
In these two years' undergraduate life, I think the most headache thing is too urgent to get the result of the model but without knowing how much work need to be done at the beginng. Step by step, I become to know the real situation, but lost in the mess deeper and deeper.
Without a leader on duty, this topic is too difficult itself. And this situation will let you to face all the problems although some of them do not have relationship with you, like the fighting for right and interest.
I do not know, why there are so many words which is out of my behaver. People do not care I work in the office untill 23:00, but the result; people do not care how many things I need to care, but the surface.
Scandal is scandal, but the misunderstanding let me feel not so good, especially some one I believe but have changed himself.
I have struggled to get out this mess days before, and self-questioned. Does it mean I do the work ahead?
Life is difficult eough, although I think most of time I keep silence.
Work is the most important thing, is not it? Can the things come out of work mix with the dialy relationship? Which is more important?
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